Tuesday, April 24, 2018

May, 2018


Haddonfield 
     65 Club                  
                  The Retired Men’s Club of Haddonfield
                       Web address: http://haddon65club.blogspot.com/  
         110 Rhoads Ave
            Haddonfield, NJ 08033                                               May 1, 2018

President’s Message


The first quarter of this year is over as are the threat of snow and work of tax filings for most, if not all of us. With April gone, we are now in the month when we get to see the flowers that all of those April Showers brought us. A possibly little-known fact about April is that as of April 14th the need for a signature on most credit card sales is no longer a requirement. Advances in fraud protection technology have made the signature superfluous. Those chips on our credit cards are really working. So now, as we move into warmer, and hopefully sunnier, days we can look to more secure use of our credit cards.
We have our Spring Luncheon this month and our trip to the Hindu Mandir near Trenton, followed by a lunch at the Pub. This is always a good venue. In addition, we get to look forward to all of our preparations for this summer. We will, hopefully, be celebrating the achievements of the Sixers and the Flyers as they complete their playoff schedules.
As for the 65 Club, we are not standing still. We have some more activities on our horizon. We have a trip to Middletown, PA for a train ride, boat trip and dinner at a Victorian Restaurant. What a great deal and at a minimum price! Following that event is our preparation for the Haddonfield July 4th parade.
Golf is now in full swing (sorry for the pun) and the card players can now play for fun without the pressure of competing for awards. Our speakers program continues to roll on. Jay has lined up some excellent speakers for us in the next months. So, keep your eyes peeled to the list of topics and speakers. The topics are varied and always interesting. I find that there is always something to learn from these sessions.
Finally, for those of you that missed it the first time around, the movie, “Yellow Submarine” will be returning to theaters in July to celebrate the Beatles’ 50th anniversary.
– – Al Schmidt
“The hardest thing to understand in the world is the income tax”.
 – – Albert Einstein
Ladies Spring Luncheon – May 10th
The Ladies Spring Luncheon is almost here. Once again it will be held at Tavistock. If you haven’t received a call and wish to attend, please contact Bob Parsons at 856-795-1465. to sign up and give him your menu preference. The cost of the luncheon remains at $30 per person.
The Cash Bar will open at 12:00 Noon and lunch will be served at 12:30. The entre selections are: Chicken Picata, Caesar Salad with Jumbo Lump Crab, Salmon or Pasta Primavera. Of course, there will also be the usual accompaniments; rolls, butter, coffee and tea as well as ice cream for dessert.
Haddonfield’s own Julia Chin will be providing entertainment for the luncheon. Over the years, we have watched Julia grow as a person and as a musical talent. Julia Rose Chin, age 16, attends the Julliard Pre-College and is an 11th grader at Haddonfield Memorial High School.  Julia started playing the violin when she was 6 years old and currently studies the violin with Dr. Ann Setzer at Julliard. The winner of several competitions, Julia has performed at Carnegie Hall, Alice Tully Hall, Lincoln Center, and the Kimmel Center. Julia has always enjoyed “making music” with her friends and has helped to raise tens of thousands of dollars for various good causes through “Play It for Good”. Outside of music, Julia enjoys cooking (and eating!), Japanese culture, computer science and videogames.
Trip to the Hindu Mandir – May 15th
Broaden your horizons and increase your knowledge. Our destination will be to the Hindi Mandir, in Robbinsville NJ. This is a place of worship for those of the Hindu faith and it is open to the public for tours. Words cannot describe the beauty and intricate carvings here. It is truly a breath-taking experience.
When we arrive, we will first remove our shoes, before entering. Shorts and skirts are not permitted. Our visit will consist of a short welcome and introductory address, followed by a 10-minute video presentation.
We will be divided into smaller groups, where a tour guide will describe the facility. As we explore the facility our tour guides will point out many interesting details and explain the carvings, and they are happy to answer all questions.
Optionally you may take part in several religious experiences such as the, Arti Ceremony, or Abhishek, purely your decision.
The trip will originate at the PUB Restaurant, please park in remote areas. Our school bus will depart at 9 AM PROMPTLY, arriving at the destination by 10:00 AM. Following the visit to the Mandir, we will return to the PUB for lunch.
This trip is sponsored by the Haddonfield 65 Club, but open to all interested in taking part. Seating is limited. To reserve your spot mail your check for $25.00 (made out to the Haddonfield 65 Club) to the Haddonfield 65 Club at 110 Rhoads Ave. Haddonfield NJ, 08033
Questions, please contact Bill Brown at 856-429-4368, or billbrown08033@aol.com

Feed My Starving Children

Many thanks to those who were able to participate in this event. The old-timers held our own alongside all those young folks. As always, this was a very rewarding experience. The 65 Club has been involved every year since this event started in Haddonfield.  Those who participated are listed below.

Jay & Janice Cokos
John & Susan Garra
Richard Murry
Al Schmidt
Lou Dunkle
John Hempstead
Bob & Grace Parsons
Jerry & Nancy Tarr
Fran & Betsy DuVernois
Frank Lodge
Bernie & Betsy Schaming



65 CLUB'S RON HOWLEY, A MAN OF DESTINY
IN EDUCATION, SPORTS, FAMILY & SERVICE
Inevitable destiny.  Those words best define who Ron Howley became on life's tour as an educator and multiple sports coach, as well as an inspiration to thousands of young people. 
Add to that six sons, 17 grandchildren and five great grandchildren, and you know why Ron and his wife, Sally,
married 60 years, count their blessings knowing they've experienced very rich and rewarding lives.
"FROM THE BEGINNING, thanks to my parents Harold and Marie, I knew what I wanted to do,” recalled Ron.  "My dad was an outstanding high school athlete, served as a Marine in the Pacific during World War 2 -- performing heroics for which he was decorated -- and in civilian life was an owner of a local grocery store, supplementing his income by becoming an excellent referee and umpire in sandlot, high school and college football and baseball for decades. 
"Thanks to dad, I became an 'athletic junkie', excelled at sports and academics at Roxborough High School in Philadelphia, earned a football scholarship to Temple University, and then had a lengthy, fulfilling teaching and coaching career in several high schools.  It allowed me to help thousands of young men with not only their sports activities, but with academics which led to successful lives.  And the high school football teams I helped coach in Philadelphia were big time winners and champions for a number of years.
"Caring parents who gave me great guidance and encouragement, and left me with many sweet memories, put me on the road to my destiny."
Ron can best be described as a gentle man, with a very positive outlook in life.
TO HADDONFIELD.  Ron and his wife Sally moved to Haddonfield in 2005, after raising their family of six sons.  The family's expansion beyond that of grandkids and great grandkids, with a good number living locally, gives the Howleys the opportunity to enjoy visits frequently.
As the great author of The Prophet, Kahlil Gibran, wrote "You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth...that they may go swift and far...from the bow that is stable."  For Ron and Sally, they've achieved great pleasure and pride from the arrows of life they've sent forth.   And for Ron, thousands of more arrows from the time he was a teacher and coach give him satisfaction for many lives he touched and guided.
Now Ron is an active member of the Haddonfield community, participating in 65 Club charitable and community activities, as well as many actions to help others locally.  And Ron enjoys his special love, fishing, as much as time will allow.
LOOKING BACK, Ron recalls his many memorable achievements with great pride. "At Roxborough High in Philadelphia, I played three years of varsity football and two years each of baseball and basketball.  My senior year I was captain of both the football and basketball teams and was all public league in football as a center and 2nd team all scholastic.  In addition, I was voted outstanding athlete in the senior class."
After four years at Temple U., competing in both football and track, and becoming captain of the football team in his senior year, Ron graduated with a degree in Health and Physical Education.  He then joined an Army Reserve unit, serving honorably stateside for six years.  He also earned a Master’s Degree from Trenton State College in secondary administration in 1966.     
ROMANCE.  Amidst all of the academic and sports activities, Ron found time for romance, as well.  "I met Sally at a football party in Roxborough, and our attraction for each other blossomed until we were married the day after Christmas in 1957," said Ron with obvious satisfaction.
TEACHING AND COACHING.  "I began my teaching and sports coaching career in September, 1958, at a brand-new school, Triton High in Runnemede, NJ," said Ron.  "In 1965 I moved on to Frankford High School in Philly as a health and physical education teacher and an assistant coach for the football team.  I also started a varsity gymnastics boys team and served as a varsity track coach.  But football was my major focus and serving as an assistant to legendary head coach Al Angelo, I helped Al and the team win 10 public league championships from the mid-1960s until the mid-1980s.  I was very fortunate to be part of the great football legacy Frankford established, and be able to offer guidance and help academically to the many lives I touched."
Then Ron moved on in 1985 to head the Health and Physical Education Department at West Philadelphia High School and as athletic director.  Two years later Ron was appointed Chairman of Philadelphia's Public League Football.  In 1990 Ron transferred to Roxborough High School with the same duties he had at West Philly High, and in 1993 he retired from the Philadelphia public school system.
Among highlights of Ron's teaching and coaching career, in 1968 he was named "Teacher of the Year", and in 1976 "Coach of the Year" by his peers.  He was also inducted into the Roxborough High athletic sports Hall of Fame, as well as the Philadelphia Chapter of the Pennsylvania Sports Hall of Fame. 
THE FAMILY.  "While my teaching and coaching career took flight over the years, Sally and I concurrently began our family with the birth of our first son, Rick, in January, 1959, followed in rapid succession with five more sons, Ron, Paul, Ted, Tim and Andy, all now happily married with children of their own," said Ron.
"Rick, a graduate of West Point, who served in Iraq and Afghanistan, now works for the Corps of Engineers in Washington, DC.  He and his wife Deborah have three children, all following in the education footsteps of their parents, with successful careers.  They also have four grandchildren.  Second son Ron, who earned a degree in chemical engineering from Drexel, and is a vice president of an energy company, and his wife Randi, have three sons.  They are graduates of the Air Force Academy, Drexel, and Virginia Tech, respectively.
"Third son Paul, a Fed Ex manager, is married to Patricia, and they are the parents of four children, all of whom have earned or are seeking college degrees, and one grandchild.  Number four son, Edward (Ted), works for an insurance company, and with his wife, Carole, have two daughters, both of whom are studying at colleges, one at Pace University and the second at Teachers College of New Jersey.
"Next, Tim and his wife Elaine, live in Haddon Township, with their son and two daughters.  Son Jacob is a freshman at Gettysburg College.  Tim is a manager for Fed Ex in Bellmawr, NJ.  Last, but not least, Andy, our youngest, lives with his wife Allison, in Haddon Township, with their two children, and Andy works for Fed Ex, while Allison is a school nurse in Collingswood High. Their son Jeb is a freshman at Penn State."
SALLY GETS THE CREDIT.  Ron, with great admiration, credits Sally with taking on the major responsibility of raising their family.  "After our youngest, Andy, started school, Sally embarked on concurrent adventures in her life in education, eventually earning a Master’s Degree in Education, while at the same time spending 25 years as an educator, including years as a reading teacher at Collingswood Middle School, and as a school counselor.  An amazing person, by any measure, who I've been privileged to spend my life with," said Ron. 
Ron also has two sisters, Judy and Donna, both now retired, who live nearby and are very much a part of his family and life.
"If I had to do it all over again," reflects Ron, "I would change very little.  Well, perhaps some more time for fishing.  But with education, coaching, family, and various charitable endeavors, how can one ask for anything more?  I'm one lucky guy, and still being around to appreciate it, gives me the greatest joy of all."  
Clubhouse Programs
Thursday
May 3
Directors meeting
10:00AM
Thursday
May 3
THE BIRTH OF JAZZ . . . . . . . . . .Sandy Catz
1:30 PM
Thursday
May 10
Ladies Spring Luncheon at Tavistock
12  Noon
Thursday
May 17
Symphony  (not confirmed) . . . . . . . . Theresa McKinley
1:30 PM
Thursday
May 24
ST. JOHN of GOD . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Nancy Mansfield
1:30 PM
Thursday
May 31
VIETNAM: BEING THERE. . . . . . .. Bill Olver
1:30 PM
Thursday
June 7
Directors meeting
10:00AM
Thursday
June 7
PHILLY TO HADDONFIELD: by TRAIN. Ron Baile
1:30 PM
Thursday
June 14
Business meeting + Dentistry. . . . . . ..Nicholas Rausch
1:30 PM
Thursday
June 14
SENIOR GIFTING. . . . . . . . . . . . .. . Sean McGovern
1:30 PM
NOTE: We have an insatiable appetite for presenters. We rely on the vast experience of our members to satisfy this need by suggesting speakers. So, be on the alert and notify John Cokos (428-3621) if you have any suggestions for speakers.

NOTE: there is no Newsletter in June or August during the summer. There will be one in July.
Obituary
Henry Kallfelz passed away, March 27, 2018. Beloved husband of 67 years to Marie (nee Kolsun). Loving father to five daughters: Maria M. Kallfelz of Runnemede NJ, Janet Price (John) of Stratford, NJ, Carol Stow (John) of Holland Twp., NJ Susan Bennett (Wade) of Wayne, PA and Sally Oseguera (Raul) of Columbus NJ, Nine grandchildren: Sarah and John Price, Allison and Caroline Stow, Wade Jr and Kelsey Bennett, Catherine, Lynn and Miranda Oseguera. One brother: Charles Kallfelz of Milford, NH and one sister, the late Margaret (Sr. Veronica) Kallfelz.
Henry was a long-time member of Tavistock County Club, and parishioner of Christ the King Church. He was a 17-year member of the Haddonfield 65 Club.
May Birthdays
 2   Donald F. Miano
12   Warren F. Tomlinson
19   Kenneth Landgraf
25   John S. Garra
 5   Michael Underwood
12   Lawrence D. Lyford
22   William F. Rommelman
25   John W. Petrozzi
 7  Joseph Hillegas
12  William C. Kanupke
22  Howard Lamphere
28  Walter Baker
 8  George R. Fisher
16  Brad Jones
23  Robert Parsons
28  William E. Reifsteck
12  George H. Tice
17  Donald R. Beck
25  Richard Sexton


Activities
Bowling
Come on out to Laurel Lanes on Rt. 73 at 9:15 on Friday mornings and get ready to go BOWLING. If you don’t have any bowling equipment, the alley will lend you a bowling ball, bowling shoes, and give you coffee, tea and Danish for the low price of only $6.55.  What a bargain.
Final Bowling Averages for 2018
Ave
Player
Ave
Player
Ave
Player
163
John Geist
143
Ed Howe 
124
John Fiorella
157
Walt Baker
142
Bill Brown
120
Tom Mervine
156
John Biondi
132
Alan Bigelow




High Average
Most Improved Ave
High Scratch Game
High Scratch Series
John Geist - 163
John Biondi  +7.4 pins
John Geist - 237
John Biondi - 611
Walt Baker - 157
John Fiorella +6.5 pins
John Biondi – 225
Walt Baker - 588
John Biondi - 156
Ed Howe +5.2 pins
Walt Baker - 222
John Geist - 553
NOTE: Female bowlers are welcome to join us Friday morning, contact Sally Howley at 856-428-0191, for details.
– – Walt Baker and Dick Gimigliano
Bridge
Average Bridge Scores Through April 23, 2018
Player
Wks
Ave
Player
Wks
Ave
Player
Wks
Ave
Rementer
25
2.100
Hoeberg
30
1.750
Gallager
28
1.429
Tarr
24
2.021
Bigelow
26
1.577
Aronow
14
1.286
Coelho
29
2.017
Mervine
28
1.536
Marchesani
14
1.107
Cosentino
30
1.950
Leimkuhler
24
1.521
Pusatere
22
1.068
Schaming
30
1.767
McConville
24
1.500
Tarditi
25
1.040
We play at the Clubhouse every Monday. If you are interested in Duplicate Bridge please join us.  We start at 1:00pm sharp so please arrive by 12:45.                                                                                   – – Bernie Schaming
Pinochle

Average Pinochle Scores Through April 18, 2018

Player
Wks
Ave
Player
Wks
Ave
Player
Wks
Ave
Bill Brown
2
7.500
Tom Mervine
30
4.433
Charles Legge
19
3.211
Bud Pusatere
25
5.160
Len Walden
27
3.944
Henry Leimkuhler
19
3.158
Howard Rementer
28
4.911
Joe Galliera
26
3.615
John Geist
21
2.905
Bill Hoeberg
30
4.700
Roland Heilig
25
3.560
Ron Howley
26
2.500

Pinochle is played every Wednesday at 12:30 PM at the Clubhouse. Play begins at 12:30 PM; please arrive by 12:15 PM. You are invited to join us.                                                                                             – – Tom Mervine
Golf
Since my supplier of data is in Holland and there have only been a few weeks of golf so far, we will have a complete listing in the July newsletter. (There is no newsletter in June).

Composing Editor: Bernie Schaming
Contributors: Walt Baker, Bill Brown, Jim Dunn, Tom Mervine,
Saul Resnick, Al Schmidt & Mike Underwood

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